Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Sacrifices

There are things that we need to sacrifice. There will be one time when you have to sacrifice something whether you are willing to or not. Normally, people are not willing to make sacrifices. That is why it calls sacrifice; pengorbanan. But sometimes we need let go those things that we sacrifice for. It's something that we need to learn; learn to let go.


There are certain situations where we need to sacrifice something that we love. Something that is important. As for me, I need to sacrifice my passion. Passion towards dancing. I've been dancing since I was in kindergarten. Then in primary and secondary school I join dancing club and get involved in competition and dancing show. But when I grow older, I need to sacrifice that passion for my own good. Why? Well it is not very good to dance infront of other men, obviously. And tbh, at first I am not willing at all. I love to dance, I love dancing and it gives me sactifaction when I get to perform my dancing infront of the others. But as time flies, I manage to convince myself that it is for my own good.


Besides, even if I cannot dance infront of other men, it's not like I have to stop dancing at all.  I'm not having permanent injuries that makes me to stop from dancing. Nauzubillah. I can dance when I'm alone, or to give a sactifaction for myself, I can perform during dancing show when there are only girls that are watching.






Well same goes to those who have passion in something that is forbidden to do at certain situations such as singing. You can still sing but as a woman, we have to cover our aurah, not to show to ajnabi but you can still sing whenever you want as long as you are alone or infornt of yout girl-friends or family members only. 


When you sacrifice something that is a good thing to be sacrifice for, something that gives you more prosequences and benefits rather than consequences, then you will be rewards something bigger that what you've been sacrifice for. It makes your sacrifice, worth it.  InsyaAllah